Healing. Day 1.

11 01 2016

So.. I return after almost a year. I am so sorry you guys. Been wanting to update the past two days, but my mind wouldn’t be fully be able to process thoughts. Honestly, I still don’t know if I can. I guess the best way would be just do this in a form of a letter, then you all can see why.

Dear Oltar,

I am still trying to put pieces of our conversations together to try to make sense of how things ended. I am still trying to figure how and why I am taking this so hard. I haven’t been hurting this much in so many years. We care so deeply for one another but you want to let go. You say it’s because you will just keep hurting me and I deserve better, etc. Truth is, you were being honest and I was just having hard time right off the bat to swallow the truth. I would have eventually excepted it and we could at least go with our lives being friends. You were right about a lot of things and I agree with a few of your decisions. Just your decision to end our friendship on top of it all, is one I can never agree with. I know it hurts you to not being able to have what you want. I get that. It’s soo hard going back to how my life was before I met you. Specially being I am doing this ALL alone. It’s what also hurts.

What we have/had is something a lot people wish they could have. We clicked, we enjoyed each other company even if it was just in a game. We enjoyed talking on the phone. An everything was cut off cold turkey. This has to be killing you, too. If everything you told me was the truth. God, what I would give just to get one of your daily good morning text or for you to ask me how I am doing and how did I sleep. I carry my phone around out of habit so I don’t miss your text and I wait patiently for you to text me when you get off from work. Then reality hits, and its all silences. I would give anything to work something out with you. Someone in the game, said, “If what he said was the deep down honest truth, one day he will come around, just he feels this is the best for you and him for the time being. Cause he never said once in what you told me, that he never wants talk, see or hear from you again. So only time can tell. You two need space!” Part of what they said was true, but they don’t know how you are so I can be hopeful but I know the truth. I know you care and love me, and always want me to remember that. You don’t hate me, you will never forget me or wonder if I am OK or how I am doing. Knowing you right now, you are keeping yourself so busy that you are wearing yourself out to a point of you crash by 10 if your not up cause your brain won’t shut off. Everything and anything to numb yourself. There is a quote that was given to me..

“A broken relationship becomes fixable once you both begin to realize that the past doesn’t have to equal the future.”-Blake Shelton

I can write forever cause honestly this is very therapeutic to me. You never know what the future holds, we can only hope it leads us to where the universe wants us to be. I’m not mad at you and having someone devote themselves or time into someone, is worth keeping no matter how rough the road gets. You are a amazing person. So, you are a emotional robot, but it makes you love someone even stronger. You are worth more then you are giving yourself credit. I hope one day you don’t let fear run your life. You know my door is always open to you. You want me happy, I get that. I just hope you let me share that with you one day, if you let me. OK, I think I will end this one here. I will write more later. Be safe ❤





2 responses

11 01 2016

I so empathize with you on this letter. Feeling that someone is the right person for you and not fully understanding why they ended things. I have this situation with this guy I really like we have so much in common in terms of our interests and family background, to me we seem so perfect together but he just doesn’t want to date me. I don’t know why and I’m going to ask him in the next few months as I genuinely don’t think I will be able to date someone else until I know. You’ve obviously had a serious relationship with this person, so I hope you can re-kindle it. Unlike me who’s life has been blighted by unrequited love! http://bit.ly/1ER5cLY

11 01 2016
Alex's Random thoughts and adventures..

Thank God. I am not alone. I wish someone could talk to him for me and see what’s up. Yet at the same time don’t want to look so desperate and clingy. Thank for understanding 🙂

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